Dr. Claire Conlon
Tips to promote control over anxiety
• Refocus your attention! Concentrate really hard on something in your environment: colours, shapes and textures of objects you feel. Titles of books on shelf, a passage from a book. Describe these things to yourself in your head in detail
• Find a ‘grounding object’- a comforting, tangible object which you carry around with you and squeeze when you space out to bring you back to the present. A small item/soft toy, key ring, stress ball..
• Develop a grounding image. Rehearse a soothing image, one which helps you to feel in control and safe.
• Develop a grounding phrase, a few words or a tune which is affirming and a reminder that you are surviving in the present. Phrase from ‘I am ok’ to ‘i am ok, I am strong, I am safe and I am here in this moment’.
• In addition, you can remind yourself of where you are, what day and date is it and that you are safe.
• Try to find a grounding position, a physical position in which you feel safe and/or strong. Superwoman pose
• Some find curling up is comforting other prefer a more upright stance with shoulders back. You need to discover what works for you.
• Find some mindfulness exercise that works for you, looking at apps such as the ‘CALM’ app on iTunes that allow access to relaxation and meditation exercises that works.
• If the symptoms persist it is very important to seek support from your GP and they can direct you to local services that might be useful.